Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts

Monday, 27 February 2023

Self Motivation Can Be Hard At Times

Keeping ourselves motivated at times can be hard.

Often we don't realise that people we interface with for various reasons, have a dramatic and either positive or negative influence on us... at times we all have to make tough choices regarding the time we spend with some, whilst others the choice is easy.


#BeMotivated #GuidingBodyAndMind #MakingADifference


Sunday, 15 November 2020

It Is So Easy to Give Up on Our Goals When They Don't Give Us Immediate Results

We have motivation. We "do what we're told," but our body still isn't to our liking and is holding us back from our life.

And so we get frustrated and either get mad at ourselves, react and jump to something different, or just stop altogether.

The world we live in today is fast, which translates to us wanting immediate satisfaction.

Quick Fixes Don't Work
But the dark side behind those "magic buttons," "get rich quick," "crash diet" techniques?

They rarely ever work!

One thing I run into with so many of my clients is that they always ask me, "Ekemba, what is the one thing I can do to get some great reward?"

And I think that is one of the most disjointed ideas we have today about what it takes to take care of your body.

Everyone wants to live a good life and have their body not keep them down, but to help propel it.

But there is a big issue with the information that comes out. It's all disjointed and designed around marketing first, and not about what it really takes.

You see, to really take care of your body, you need to have a plan...

When I began working out, it was for sports. The goal was to get good at the sports I played.

Then afterward, I wanted to lose weight and gain muscle.

Then I HAD to train to correct my injuries and imbalances.

All those programs are different. But we are told that they are all interchangeable and are "tools in our tools box," and thrown under the guise of "changing it up." When, in reality, it is tough to fit them together, and takes time for each program to take effect.

Follow The Correct Path For You
It wasn't until I was forced to take a step back to correct my injuries did I start to study the rules and philosophies designed to have the body function at its best did I see where the health and fitness industry was leading us astray.

It's easy to feel like you are doing what you are supposed to be doing because you are active, and the workouts that you and everybody are doing make some sense.

But just because some of the information is correct doesn't mean it is totally correct or totally correct for you.

Because now, the health and fitness industry is such a copycat industry... it's easy to fall into a rut.

If you don't really know what you're doing, or if you're only reference is that you are moving and working out...

Odds are you aren't going to really achieve your goals.

Usually, to get that satisfaction that you have achieved what you really want, you have to do what others aren't.


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Thursday, 21 May 2020

Putting Off Exercise? Two Ways to Regain Motivation and Stop Procrastinating Workouts

Today is the day!
You told yourself you'd hit to the gym after work. But work was more hectic than you thought. Now you're drained. You drive home, clean up a bit, but then you make the mistake of sitting down. You can feel your energy fading - along with your motivation.
You know you should get that workout in.
But the idea of dragging yourself to the gym is quickly turning into a pipe dream. You feel like you just can't get yourself to get up. So then you decide you'll workout tomorrow instead. But this too is questionable.
This cycle can go on for days... weeks... even months. And it's frustrating because part of us wants to work out, and knows we'll feel so much better once we do - but another part of ourselves would rather just crash on the couch.
So why do we procrastinate workouts?
Let's look at three culprits:
1. I'm Too Busy
2. I Don't Feel Like It
3. I Can't Wake Up In Time
1) I'm Too Busy
Have you found there are "more important" things to do than getting to the gym?
Maybe there's paperwork to catch up.
Maybe there are clothes to fold.
Maybe you have to make dinner.
The tricky part is all of those might be valid. All of those might be important. But those reasons can quickly turn into excuses. Especially if those same reasons stop you day after day.
2) I Don't Feel Like It. 
Some days we just aren't in the mood.
We're tired.
We're stressed out.
We're not feeling motivated.
Because we're not in the right mood, we wait until a "better day" or when we're in a "better mood".
Behind this reason is often the belief that, "I need to be motivated before I act" - which is FAR from the truth. I've met many fit people and some days they are gung-ho and super-motivated but sometimes they aren't - but they work out anyway. Lack of motivation doesn't stop them.
3) I Can't Wake Up In Time
Mornings can be rough.
The alarm disrupts our perfect slumber. So we hit snooze once... twice... a dozen times until finally we frantically have to get ready for the day.
Maybe the bed is too cozy
Maybe it's too cold outside
Maybe you're too tired. 
It can be tough waking up, especially if you're a night owl. Or if you're in the habit of snoozing your alarm clock. Sure - exercising in the morning has benefits. But if the mornings don't work, find a time that does. For some people, lunch hours or evening works much better for them.
So it could be any one of these or combination of these. Whatever the reason, let's look at two ways to prevent this cycle of procrastinating workouts.
Imagine The Finish Line
As you imagine your next workout, what comes to mind?
Do you imagine how pleasant and enjoyable it's going to be? 
Do you think about how happy you're going be while doing it? 
How much fun you're going to have? 
Probably not. When most people imagine working out, they picture all sorts of unpleasant things. Their focus zooms in on the painful exercises... how hard it will be... how tired they'll be... how sore they'll be... everyone watching them...
It's easy to see how they talk themselves out of it.
Focusing on these things will make anyone unmotivated. But just like a photographer, you can adjust and shift your focus to other qualities of a landscape. More beautiful aspects. More inspiring aspects.
In fact, let's take a lesson from the Navy SEALS on this.
Years ago, the Navy SEALS were in a dilemma, 76% of their top candidates were dropping out.The Navy knew these recruits were more than capable, yet few were making the cut. So they called psychologist, Eric Potterat to figure out how to boost the recruits' mental toughness. Potterat created four habits (called The Big Four) that worked so well, it increased graduation rate by 50%!
One habit was known as "Imagining How Good It Will Feel".
When recruits needed a boost to keep them going through a brutal workout, he taught them to imagine successfully completing a workout. This allowed them to tap into powerful emotions like feeling successful and accomplishing something. And this allowed them to power through it.
Here's how you can use this:
Visualize A Successful Workout
Imagine yourself successfully completing the workout.
Think about how good that will feel at the end.
Feel that success and that accomplishment.
Even if it's just one workout, it's still an accomplishment.
Even if you can't perform as well as you used to, it's still an accomplishment.
Visualize it as best as you can.
Bring in as many senses as you can.
And you don't have to focus on the completing the entire workout. You can use this for certain parts of your workout; using something Potterat calls "segmenting."
In an interview with Business Insider, Potterat states:
"If you're thrust into a seemingly overwhelming, stressful situation, the best thing you can do is just kind of manage one step at a time and focus on what's controllable."
Pick out certain exercises and how they will feel once you've accomplished them.
For me, I don't enjoy doing pull ups. If I imagine doing pull ups, it's not very motivating. But if I imagine what it's like after completing pull ups, it's very motivating. Use it for certain exercises.
When you break it down like this, it's somewhat like crossing off items on a checklist. You can give yourself a surge of accomplishment by finishing each of those small steps.
Here are some additional aspects you can focus on:
When you're done how much more alert and energized will you feel?
How much more peace of mind will you have after the work out?
How much better will the rest of your day feel?
Do you think that feeling of accomplishment will carry with you the rest of the day?
5-Minute Commitment 
Working as a fitness professional, I learned that the most successful clients had certain things in common.
One of which was the quantity of workouts they did on their own (called "off-day workouts"). In many cases, these would make or break people. You see, when people need to show up for a session with a trainer, they have accountability. So it's not too difficult to show up.
But it's a different story when they have to show up on their own.
So I gave them a challenge.
Even if you're tired.
Even if you don't feel like it.
Even if you're not motivated.
Even if you're not in the mood.
5-Minute Commitment
  1. Workout for 5-minutes
  2. If after five minutes you still aren't feeling it, then go home. 
Well, guess what?
In most cases, they'll finish the entire workout. Instead of waiting for motivation to strike them like lightning, they acted their way into motivation. It's similar to the quote by William Butler Yeats, "Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking."
Commit yourself to just five minutes.
Worst-case scenario, you still accomplish a small workout.
Best-case scenario, you finish the entire thing.
For more ways to fight procrastination and boost your discipline to power through projects, workouts, and tasks - check out http://www.elitelifecoaching.net/procrastination-and-productivity

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